I have come to the understanding that no matter how level headed you think a person is, they will always surprise you and do something irresponsible. I have left many friendships behind because of this. I do not and will not put up with stupidity if you are too ignorant to learn from it. I believe I am in no way a person to judge any one but I will speak up as a friend and point out the obvious if you haven't seen it your self. I have two rules when you are with me, no drugs, and no alcoholics. Now I will have or hang out at a party and drink, that is not what I am saying. I am saying you are not to come near me or my kids drunk for no reason. Then again there is no reason to get drunk to the point of stupidity anyways. If you are that way, stay away. I left that crap in high school and I haven;t looked back.
Anyways, The point I am making is this. As long as you take care of you and yours we are cool. However, when you call me up crying and sobbing because you don't know where your going to gas money for work, or how you are going to pay rent when you just had a wild weekend then we have a problem. I know I am not the best at managing bills and all but I make sure my bills are paid and if (and I mean a big IF) I have anything left, then I play. It has been almost 15 yrs since I have gone on a vacation that I have paid for. Sounds bad, but I have manged to keep a roof over my kids heads and food in there stomachs. My husband has gas in his truck and we pinch and save everywhere we can. I even went back to school so I could learn a new profession in this horrid economy. I cant seem to even get a job in medical field. I am going to have to go to the local McDonald's and get a job. Oh well so be it. The problem I am having is that some would rather roll over in their own sorrow and pity then go out and do what is necessary.
The solution to all this is simple, who cares if your nails are done and if you need a hair cut grab a scrunchy, and PUT YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES ON AND DEAL WITH IT!
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That's what I'm a saying... It your cousin Lisa...lol...I have left plenty behind due to them never growing up and taking responsibility for themselves and their actions... at some point you can no longer blame other people for your decisions.
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